Episode Description: "Expectations & Family"

In "Expectations & Family", we dive into the intricacies of balancing the expectations of ministry life with the realities of family. The episode asks: What are some things we didn’t expect? Serving in ministry often brings unexpected challenges and blessings—moments we couldn’t have anticipated.

We also explore the idea that "Expectations are just premeditated resentments." How often do we find ourselves disappointed because of unrealistic expectations, either set by others or ourselves? The episode tackles this truth head-on, asking: Is there a big chip on my shoulder? It highlights the importance of releasing the weight of those expectations and embracing what truly is.

A central theme of this episode is the powerful notion that we get what we expect to get. If we’re waiting for something bad to happen, we’ll find it. But, conversely, if we expect good things, our perspective shifts, and the world around us can transform. My attitude is everything. With this truth, we reflect on the ways our expectations have shaped our experiences, and how a simple shift in mindset can make all the difference.

The episode also touches on the beautiful, and sometimes challenging, experience of raising kids in ministry. How do we protect their faith and nurture their spiritual growth while balancing the demands of our calling? What happens when the pressures of ministry feel at odds with the personal needs of our children? This leads to a powerful question: Can we save the world but lose our own child’s soul?

Additionally, the episode celebrates the blessing of being part of a ministry team with our husbands. While preacher and wife marriages are never picture perfect, there’s a unique bond that forms when both partners share a common mission. How does ministry solidify our commitment? How do we navigate the ups and downs of ministry life, while keeping our own faith strong and our family united?

We reflect on the joy of being able to be present for our children’s spiritual journey. What do we love about being in ministry with our family? From attending church services together to seeing our children develop their own faith, being involved in ministry allows us to walk alongside them, shaping their understanding of God in a unique way.

Ultimately, Expectations & Family highlights the blessings and struggles that come with serving in ministry while raising a family. It reflects on how God has strengthened and blessed our families through the trials and triumphs of ministry life. Where has God blessed our family in ministry? Through personal stories, we celebrate the moments where our families have been touched by grace and where our commitment to ministry and family has led to greater faith and stronger bonds.